The Pros and Cons of a Devotional Life
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The Pros and Cons of a Devotional Life

The Pros and Cons of a Devotional Life 

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I’m Alan Stoddard and I am joined by Kenneth Priest for a conversation on the pros and cons of a devotional life. We are all spiritually formed by many influences. Should you have a quiet time? What does it look like? What do you do when you hit a dry season? Let’s jump into the conversation, and as we do, think about your own spiritual growth and disciple-making influences. 

Summary

In this episode, we discuss the pros and cons of a devotional life. We share personal experiences and insights on how to cultivate a meaningful devotional practice. We emphasize the importance of reading the Bible, listening to the Bible, using devotional books, and engaging in prayer. We also highlight the need for flexibility and grace in maintaining a devotional routine. Overall, we encourage listeners to prioritize their devotional life as a means of spiritual formation.

Chapters

Introduction and Personal Background

03:24

The Argument Against Devotions

09:16

The Importance of Devotions for Spiritual Formation

21:37

The Devotional Approach to Scripture

25:18

Plan B for Devotions

27:46

10 Ways to Stoke Up Your Devotional Life

38:20

Conclusion and Encouragement

Takeaways

  • Cultivating a devotional life is crucial for spiritual formation.

  • Reading the Bible, listening to the Bible, and using devotional books are all valuable practices.

  • Having a backup plan for devotions is important for busy or unpredictable days.

  • Engaging in prayer and using different models of prayer can enhance the devotional experience.

  • Flexibility and grace are key in maintaining a devotional routine.


[00:00:03] Welcome to the STOKE IT UP podcast everybody. A podcast encouraging you in your journey with God.

[00:00:08] I'm Alan Stoddard and I'm your host and we've got another conversation on spiritual formation coming to you.

[00:00:15] But before we jump into that, I want to remind you that the STOKE IT UP podcast is a part of CGN Media, a

[00:00:22] podcast network that points people to Christ.

[00:00:25] Check out cgnmedia.org for more great shows and ways to support the ministry.

[00:00:32] I also want to invite you to the Pastors and Leaders International Conference at Calvary Chapel Coast

[00:00:37] Amesa from June 23rd to June 26th this year. And it's at conference.calvarychapel.com.

[00:00:45] I'll put it in the show notes and we would love to see you there.

[00:00:49] Well, I'm joined today by Kenneth Fries for another conversation on spiritual formation, specifically

[00:00:57] how we can encourage you in your journey with God with the pros and cons of a devotional life.

[00:01:04] We're all spiritually formed by many things. Let's jump in and see what it looks like to have a quiet

[00:01:11] time devotional life should you do it or should you not mess with it. Is it really worth it?

[00:01:16] Well, let's jump in and see what it looks like. And we want you to also evaluate where you are

[00:01:22] spiritually and how you can grow in this season of your life. Again, thanks for tuning

[00:01:29] into the Stoke It Up podcast. Well, all right, Kenneth. It's good to see you back here at

[00:01:35] the Stoke It Up podcast man. We are going to talk more about spiritual formation and today

[00:01:42] we're talking about the pros and cons of a devotional life. What's been going on with

[00:01:47] you since last week, man? Everything okay? Everything is good. Yes, it's good to be back with

[00:01:52] you and looking forward to us continuing our conversation centered around this topic. See how

[00:01:58] we can help pastors and church leaders out. We were just praying before we came on and I was

[00:02:06] praying and we've talked about this before. Kenneth and I met each other. He actually got

[00:02:11] me a job in some kind of way as a grader in the undergraduate department at Southwestern

[00:02:16] Seminary in 1996. And you know, we look back in ministry all these years later and we're like,

[00:02:24] wow, some people didn't make it. They fell out. Yeah, absolutely. And I think that has something to

[00:02:30] do with spiritual formation. I think it does too. Yeah, well, last week you talked a lot about

[00:02:41] our small group up in the faculty lounge of the educational building over there at Southwestern.

[00:02:47] Seven year class that was the best class we really signed up for, but it wasn't a formal class.

[00:02:55] It was just the best class he could have gotten in on with Darrell Eldridge. Man,

[00:03:00] still living off that. Still living off that. Absolutely. Well, let's do this. Let's talk

[00:03:05] about the pros and cons of a devotional life. And I want to tell you listeners,

[00:03:10] I want to give you an argument for why you should stop doing devotions. Divosions. When we do devotions,

[00:03:19] and I'm being a little facetious here, but we want to give a unique way of having a conversation.

[00:03:23] But when we do devotions, when we talk about that, when you have youth that go to youth camp,

[00:03:30] we will have a time for the kids and a youth. When they get up, there's going to be a 20 minute

[00:03:35] period of time where they take their Bible, they take their little camp workbook and they go do their

[00:03:43] devotions. And we tell people when they get saved, you need to do devotions. But I want to make an

[00:03:50] argument that you should stop doing devotions and just go with, you know, kind of wing it.

[00:03:56] You don't have to be all that formal and strategic and intentional about having devotions. And, you know,

[00:04:06] those books, by the way, those books that we read, they're not the Bible. Oswald Chambers,

[00:04:14] My Atmos for His Highest. I mean, I've got all kinds of devotions. You know, I would say,

[00:04:20] stop using those things. They're not the Bible. You need the Bible. And listen, you're always,

[00:04:27] you're always listening to the Bible. I mean, you go to church, your pastor opens the Bible.

[00:04:34] You're showing up. I mean, you're there and you're hearing the Bible on Sunday. I mean,

[00:04:42] those and when you don't have your devotions, you don't make it. Okay, so you're like feeling

[00:04:46] guilty. You're like, Oh man, I'm a loser Christian because I'm not having my devotions.

[00:04:52] You should just stop because, Hey, look, God is forming you anyway. He's spiritually

[00:05:00] forming you and shaping you into what he wants you to be anyway. You can just kind of assume

[00:05:07] that, you know, you become a Christian, you've been baptized, you're going to church, you're

[00:05:13] doing your part. You should stop doing your devotions and stop feeling guilty about

[00:05:21] not having a devotional life that is spiritually or a devotional life and or a taking a look at

[00:05:31] what we're trying to do these days is say, what has formed you in your life spiritually?

[00:05:38] Okay, so, Kenneth, if I say that, what's your response to that? Why you should stop having

[00:05:45] devotion? Yeah. So, well, you know, you naturally want me to jump in the opposite and go against

[00:05:53] you on that. But one thing I will say is, you know, you should stop doing them if they do not

[00:05:59] drive you to the word. Devotions that are written outside of the word are just self-help books.

[00:06:10] And so, I would agree with you that that's not what you should be doing. But if the

[00:06:14] devotion is driving you to the word first, then it is something to consider doing.

[00:06:22] Most devotions are systematic and structured. They're thematic potentially in that they're going to take

[00:06:32] a week and address a theme, and they're going to pull out verses throughout Old and New Testament

[00:06:38] that focus on that theme. And oftentimes people can find great comfort in a devotion when they're

[00:06:45] going through a difficulty and they're able to see more than just one Bible verse to help them

[00:06:52] through a difficult situation. Oftentimes when you just find one verse, you know,

[00:06:58] you kind of say that's not enough. I need more to help me. And so, a structured devotional plan

[00:07:06] is actually a good thing in your life. It can be a good thing in your life if it drives you

[00:07:11] to the word. And if it's meeting the spiritual needs of where you are at this particular time.

[00:07:18] And if it's, if you're using a devotion that's not meeting your needs,

[00:07:22] then the encouragement would be to change up your devotions, change up how you're doing

[00:07:28] devotions. And let's be honest, everybody goes through seasons in their life where they just

[00:07:34] kind of set it aside and they take a break from doing devotions. And you know,

[00:07:40] there's nothing wrong with your devotional time just being you and your Bible and a piece of paper.

[00:07:46] And you're just sitting there and just reading through God's Word and taking notes. It could

[00:07:52] be that you're in the midst of, so one of the things that I've done for actually two different

[00:08:00] churches I've served is the Bible in a hundred days. You know, the average person reading

[00:08:06] the Bible 45 minutes a day can read the Bible in 86 days. I'm not an average reader, I'm a slow

[00:08:14] reader. It takes me a little bit longer than 45 minutes, takes me about an hour, hour and 10 minutes

[00:08:18] a day, but I could do it in 86 days. So you take one day a week off and that turns into 100 days.

[00:08:26] And so I've done kind of Bible in a hundred days as a sermon series. And so we encourage the

[00:08:30] devotional to just be reading the Bible. Well, if you're going to spend an hour

[00:08:34] reading the Bible, it's kind of hard to pick up another devotion and read that as well. And so,

[00:08:39] you know, there are seasons that you might go through that you'll do something differently, but

[00:08:45] there is nothing wrong with engaging in a devotional reading to give you a systematic

[00:08:51] structure. You brought up the whole youth camp kids camp kind of thing. Typically those devotions

[00:08:57] are geared toward the theme of the camp. And so it's getting those students engaged with the

[00:09:02] word in a different way than just hearing the speaker, than just hearing the small group sessions.

[00:09:09] And so they're actually breaking down into three different models of disciple making of

[00:09:14] spiritual formation. They have the proclamation, which is coming from their campus pastor or their

[00:09:22] camp pastor. They have their small group community time. Usually you go away to one

[00:09:28] of these youth camps and you're at this big event with multiple churches. And so your church group

[00:09:33] sets aside and has small group times, but then they also give you this individualized time and all

[00:09:40] of them are centered around the same theme. And so you're developing students in that same theme

[00:09:46] in these three different spiritual formation methodologies. And I think those are good.

[00:09:51] I think it's great when a pastor develops his own devotional plan that does partner with

[00:09:56] the sermon series that they're doing, the theme that's happening at the church right now or the

[00:10:02] season we're about to go in. Let's prepare for that. And so they develop a devotional series

[00:10:08] that goes along with that in revitalization. We do that. We're like, look, here's a 40 day

[00:10:13] devotional. It's centered around revitalization of the church as personal renewal as well as

[00:10:20] corporate renewal and what that looks like. And so there's a purpose for doing devotions

[00:10:26] in different types of devotions in different ways. And they are generating a spiritual formation

[00:10:33] in your life that can be beneficial for you. But as far as not doing them at all,

[00:10:40] I don't know that that's the right thing to do. But yeah, that would be my immediate response.

[00:10:48] I like it. And we're going to answer that. I was being half facetious, but then I'm also

[00:10:54] being half we want to bring up in a minute. What are the other things that shape? How does

[00:10:59] the devotional life go into the day? So, so one of the reasons why we should start and keep doing

[00:11:08] devotions is like I'll use the kids camp example. I thought I used to have a little love hate

[00:11:16] relationship with sending kids to camp and youth to camp. So I'm like, man, we're getting

[00:11:22] kids that are going and they're, they're not paying and their parents are coming to church. And

[00:11:29] then I was reminded here a couple years ago and it was before this, but it was really

[00:11:35] reminded afresh about two years ago when I saw, wow, the church where we're going here in

[00:11:42] Grandberry at Grandberry Baptist, we totally fund kids. We raised $30,000 for kids to go to

[00:11:48] camp. I mean, we pay for other churches sometimes. And I thought, I thought of this, here's the picture.

[00:11:55] Some students and kids by them going to camp and being encouraged to do little devotions,

[00:12:01] that will be the only time they will have anyone telling them you ought to develop a devotional

[00:12:06] life. And I came under conviction a little, I thought, oh, I'm not thinking right. We want

[00:12:12] to spiritually form those kids and students to have devotions. Let me ask you this, what is your

[00:12:20] favorite devotional book? If you had to pick one? Well, you know, you named my at most for his

[00:12:27] highest. That's that's probably one of the best that that I've used through the years.

[00:12:35] There's there's my favorite. Yeah, there's just something about the way that he wrote

[00:12:41] the engagement that it has for your life and the topics that are were selected that he addresses

[00:12:49] that are just very, you know, inspirational and challenging as you grow. As a young believer,

[00:12:57] I believe that's a great one to get someone in but also as a maturing believer. I believe that

[00:13:04] it is it is unique how it can address you right where you are in your spiritual journey.

[00:13:12] What is your present plan a for your devotional life? What are you doing right now?

[00:13:19] Well, we do different things as I kind of alluded to already. And so we're reading through

[00:13:26] OS Hawkins book, the connection code, which is based off the book of Philemon. So his code

[00:13:35] series books whenever he has one come out, I try to grab it and we try to use it to go through it.

[00:13:41] Now, and this is going to lead into another part of our conversation. So I'm going to kind

[00:13:45] of let the cat out of the bag now as we're going through those one of the things that I'm

[00:13:51] looking for and praying through is does this benefit church revitalization? So is this a tool that could

[00:14:01] be utilized in church revitalization? So I mentioned the Bible in 100 days earlier

[00:14:06] and my work in doing that. And so OS has what's called the Bible code. And so one of the things

[00:14:13] that I found very helpful is you may have people in the church that just don't feel like and

[00:14:19] it's not that they can't, but they just get intimidated to read the Bible in 100 days. I mean,

[00:14:26] if you think about it, reading 66 books of the Bible in 100 days is pretty overwhelming. Now,

[00:14:33] the people that accept the challenge and complete the challenge, they're always glad they did it.

[00:14:38] But I always have people that, you know, I don't want them to fall out of church during our

[00:14:45] 100 day campaign. And there's a chance of that. And so what we try to do is we create on ramps.

[00:14:52] And so actually, my wife has developed a Bible reading plan that's kind of this whole key passages

[00:14:59] through the Bible. And so she went through the entire Bible and she found all of the key

[00:15:04] verses from every book in the Bible. And so we provide a key passages if you're not going

[00:15:09] to read the whole thing, then read the key passages. The other thing we offer is, hey,

[00:15:13] buy the Bible code and read through the Bible code, which goes through all the books in the Bible

[00:15:20] while we're preaching through the series. And so using the tools that are available devotionally

[00:15:28] to partner with what you're doing with sermon prep, with, you know, your ongoing Bible study

[00:15:36] that you personally do as a pastor, as you're preparing is actually not a bad tool to do. So

[00:15:42] right now we're in the connection code. We're reading through it as I'm looking at this little

[00:15:48] single chapter book, the book of Philemon and trying to decide, you know, does the connection

[00:15:55] code add value and benefit if I were to preach on Philemon? Because how much can you preach on

[00:16:02] Philemon when you've got those few verses? And yet then you've got this devotional reading

[00:16:08] that lasts for, I don't even know how many weeks it is because we're in the middle of it right now.

[00:16:13] Hadn't looked at it. So right now that's what I'm in as the connection code. Reading it outside

[00:16:19] of my normal when I'm preaching, preparing for a sermon and what I would do to utilize tools for

[00:16:26] that. I can tell you, you can get five messages out of Philemon at least. I take, that's a

[00:16:35] very parenthetical thing, but it's, he just used the paragraphs anyway separate subject,

[00:16:39] nerding out here. So what I'm doing is this year I decided I wanted to go through the Bible again,

[00:16:48] but I've had trouble in the last couple of years keeping up with the reading of it. So I bought

[00:16:54] the ESV Bible Lab, you 20 bucks and you get, you know, people like Jackie Hill Perry and Ray

[00:17:02] Ortland. I use those two the most they read the Bible and I'm using the McShane Bible reading plan

[00:17:09] when I get up, uh, I takes me a minute to wake up. And so I just start listening to the Bible,

[00:17:16] no matter if I'm getting coffee or showering. It doesn't matter what my first for the most part,

[00:17:23] my first little season, a few minutes there about 15 minutes is listening to the Bible.

[00:17:30] That's been very beneficial. I think we downplay that for some reason, we make it out to be if you're

[00:17:35] not a reader, you're a loser. But for the first 1500 years of the church, of church history,

[00:17:44] oral, oral communication was a big thing until the Gutenberg press. So I try to remember

[00:17:49] it's okay to listen to the Bible. Then I'm very, a very nerd thing is I'm reading

[00:17:58] Greek right now about a verse a day and parenthetically I'm in filiment. It's not as easy as

[00:18:05] you. I'm not a Greek expert or anything, but if I read it, you know, Dr. Mum was right. If you

[00:18:09] read a verse a day, it sticks with you some and, and I'm just, it makes me slow down.

[00:18:16] It makes me stop. And then one other thing I'm doing is I take a chapter a day

[00:18:23] and I address it devotionally. And, but then here's a sleeper. I've been studying

[00:18:29] more. I've decided I need to be putting a little bit of study in the danger of that

[00:18:35] is that you can be studying all the time and not be treating it devotionally. Absolutely.

[00:18:44] Before we move on, well, let's move on. I'll come back to this question of how the

[00:18:49] devotional life shapes us spiritually, but let's go to this seminary thing because it dovetails into

[00:18:53] what I just said. Should seminary devotions be separate from class? You and I were told,

[00:19:01] and it was a few professors that probably would have said that don't let your seminary classes or

[00:19:07] if you're a Bible college student, Bible college, don't let your classes be your devotional life.

[00:19:13] What do you think about that? When you look here 25 some years later almost, what do you think of,

[00:19:20] what do you think of that? Well, I go back to, yeah, I go back to where you and I,

[00:19:25] well, you and I heard that and we actually had long discussions about it early on.

[00:19:34] And you and I both landed somewhere that I still believe in today for seminary classes,

[00:19:43] for sermon preparation, for Sunday school teaching, any of those. I start out with reading it,

[00:19:52] reading the scripture passage devotionally first and then I move into the preparation side.

[00:20:03] So if I know the text that I'm preaching on, I go and I read that as a devotional thought

[00:20:09] first and just ask the question of what is this text saying in general, right?

[00:20:16] What do I get out of this text just as a quick read? Here's what the verse is. Here's what it says.

[00:20:24] And then I go through after I've read it devotionally, I go through and start reading it

[00:20:31] with the commentary and with the academic perspective to see what's behind this text, right?

[00:20:40] I do all my hermeneutical work on the backside of that. But if I'm not read it devotionally first,

[00:20:47] just to ask the question, what is this text just plain English, what it's saying?

[00:20:52] When I tell the congregate, because I don't know, you know, everybody has their own method,

[00:20:57] right? When I see what the pastor is preaching on Sunday morning, when I'm listening,

[00:21:02] or when he goes, open your Bible to this passage. What's the first thing I do? I read it.

[00:21:09] I read the entire text that he's going to preach from so that I know what he's preaching.

[00:21:15] And I'm reading it as that first pass so that it's more of a devotional read. I want to

[00:21:21] know what the text says before I hear what he says, because the text is the Word of God.

[00:21:28] And so he can then explain to me what the Word of God says and give me that deeper understanding.

[00:21:35] But just the plain simple English, I should be able to read the Bible for myself and

[00:21:41] know what it means. And so if you're not reading it devotionally,

[00:21:43] you're jumping straight into this academic perspective on things. And you never go back

[00:21:49] and just read the plain simple English and say, what is this? I was talking with a pastor today.

[00:21:55] He's working on a degree out of the European model. And so he was talking about the

[00:22:06] professors over there. They said, for you Americans as you're writing these papers that we want you

[00:22:16] to write, do us a favor. Just answer the question. We don't have to have all this

[00:22:25] hermeneutical and setting. If we ask a question, we just want to answer to the question, right?

[00:22:32] We don't have to go into all the background before you answer the question. You need to

[00:22:39] presubose we know the background because we do. We wouldn't have asked the question if we

[00:22:44] didn't know the background. We're trying to find out, can you answer the question based on this?

[00:22:49] Well, that's the same thing. A pastor doesn't need to go into all the background

[00:22:55] if he hasn't read it devotionally. Again, this is my philosophy, my opinion on this. So

[00:23:00] I read devotionally first academically second. Would you

[00:23:10] say that this statement is good? Respond to this statement that I'm going to give you.

[00:23:17] Okay. The difference between a sermon and having a word from the Lord is whether you spent time in

[00:23:27] that passage devotionally trying to hear the heart of God in it. I would affirm that statement.

[00:23:36] I believe that's a very good way of summarizing this because again, if you jump into the academics

[00:23:45] without the devotion of it, you're giving all this background and setting and you're not just answering

[00:23:55] the question. The reason why I say that is because somebody may be listening going,

[00:24:02] I'm not a pastor. What are you guys talking about? Here's what we're talking about.

[00:24:06] We live in a day now where you can literally fill your life all the time in the car,

[00:24:13] in the in between at work. You can retreat with air pods in and you can listen to podcast,

[00:24:22] you can listen to preaching, you can listen to worship music. It is much more now than it

[00:24:28] was 20 years ago. I mean, it's unreal and I would argue that sometimes filling your life

[00:24:36] with all of that instead of having the devotional approach, a simple devotional approach to life,

[00:24:46] it's not going to do for you at times, at times. It's not going to do for you

[00:24:52] what you think it's going to do. Now there are other times where I think you

[00:24:55] want to pack yourself full. I think too many Christians, somebody will say, well,

[00:25:01] you said a few minutes ago, get it? Well, you read the Bible in 90 days and I've done that

[00:25:05] before. It's a beast but it's doable. You know what? I'm in the I don't want to hear our

[00:25:10] excuses mode. Hey look man, we got time for everything else. You got to be kidding man.

[00:25:15] We got time to take an hour. We're not used to reading for an hour so that's what makes

[00:25:20] it grueling. I get it but we've got plenty of time if we want to make the time and here's what I think.

[00:25:26] Colossians 3 verse 16 is the parallel passage for Ephesians 5 18 where Paul said be filled with the

[00:25:34] spirit in 5 18 but in Colossians 3 16 he said let the word of Christ dwell in you richly. The

[00:25:43] word dwell is got a derivative of the word Oikos and it means house. Yeah, let the word of God be

[00:25:51] in housed in you and you don't get that from just reading Oswald chambers. Right. I'm not against

[00:25:59] Oswald chambers. I think I love that Devo. I mean I'd love that thing. I got so addicted I

[00:26:05] finally said I'm getting off of the Devo books because I love them. There's a fullness

[00:26:11] to quote Dr. Hemphill. There's a fullness of the spirit that comes only from intake of the word of

[00:26:20] God enough to bring that fullness into a person's life. Absolutely. So what am I saying? It's either

[00:26:29] or but it's also both and. Yeah, absolutely. Dependent on the season of life that you may be in.

[00:26:36] A new believer they're not going to read the Bible in 90 days. Not easily but they might and they'll

[00:26:42] be okay. What do you think? What are you sitting there thinking when I say that? No, no, I'm in

[00:26:46] 100% agreement. I mean that's the whole issue with this and I think what you said earlier

[00:26:52] you know is a great we did this as well listening to the Bible. So because we've read it in 100

[00:26:59] days multiple times that one of these times recent times that we did this we said hey

[00:27:05] let's just listen to the Bible in 100 days. I'm preaching through it or challenging people to read

[00:27:11] it and we just say look if you don't feel like you can read like I have one person that she's like

[00:27:16] I don't read well but she could turn the Bible on and she said she would just get so engrossed

[00:27:23] in the story of the Bible and that's the whole thing about this grand story of God

[00:27:28] right and just allowing yourself to just be there's something Alan about God's word being read over you

[00:27:39] that is a lot different than you just reading the Bible. When your house is you're dwelling

[00:27:46] when you're dwelling is full of God's word because you've got it playing on your

[00:27:54] on your surround sound or whatever you know so you can hear it whatever you're walking around doing

[00:27:59] there's something about that word being read over you that does just

[00:28:04] encompass you and causes you to just experience God in a different way than actually reading it

[00:28:10] yourself. Yeah you know what I like is when I'm listening to it I can sometimes if I'm doing

[00:28:18] something I'll carry my phone and I'll be listening or if I'm brushing my teeth or I'm in the shower

[00:28:25] whatever I'm doing I like to try to go okay what chapter of the Bible is that where is that

[00:28:30] what chapter and I don't remember all that but it's fun to hear the story and go oh yeah I remember

[00:28:35] here and I remember this and I'm the story it somehow it packs in there is a fullness of

[00:28:40] the spirit everyone what are we saying right now we're saying that the devotional life

[00:28:46] is crucial um let me ask you this Kenneth what is your plan B I usually tell people you need a plan

[00:28:54] B there's going to be a day where you're not going to be able to get up get your coffee get to your

[00:28:58] little sweet spot it's not going to go that way you got to get up and get moving what's your

[00:29:04] plan B for that what do you do well excuse me you know it's different uh and my plan B is not

[00:29:13] so formulated because all of our plans can go awry it really comes out to what is my day like

[00:29:22] and so what does it turn out to be you know when it's a study day uh the the plan is the plan

[00:29:30] right I mean I'm protecting my study time and so devotional reading happens first in fact

[00:29:39] when I'm doing sermon prep devotional reading of that text happens every time I sit down to begin

[00:29:46] working on the sermon because I want to go back to the devotional so that I make sure the in-depth

[00:29:51] stays where it's supposed to be and doesn't take away from the devotional but if it's just a

[00:29:56] normal routine day like today was this day that I did not have any study day whatsoever

[00:30:03] and so our devotional happens at night as a couple and that's where we'll read the connection code

[00:30:11] now there's there's nice we were traveling last week and we didn't take the connection code with

[00:30:16] us normally I take pictures of each of the the days but connection codes multiple pages is kind

[00:30:23] of hard to to get photos of all those on the phone and be able to read it so we're gone for two

[00:30:28] nights so we did not take the connection code hey you know what it's okay if you miss a couple of days

[00:30:35] this is not a legalistic you have to do this every day or god looks down at you and and

[00:30:42] it's disappointed in you no it's okay if you miss a couple of days the issue is you

[00:30:48] cannot make a habit of you can't allow the the exception to be the rule right so you can't

[00:30:56] say oh I'm just going to occasionally do a devotion you've got to have a plan for how you're going to

[00:31:02] do it and yeah you should have a backup plan my backup plan I have my own private devotions that

[00:31:09] happen for me when I'm doing my prep but we have our couple devotions together that's the

[00:31:15] following and look I can honestly say in our marriage I've not been great about leaving

[00:31:20] out in that couple time we have to find us a system that we are both like and are good with

[00:31:27] and commit the time to do it and so you know we we don't have television we watch everything online

[00:31:34] and so you know when we're about to sit down and watch a couple of shows before we turn it on

[00:31:40] we do our devotion and then we'll engage in television and watch shows you know if if I'm in

[00:31:49] the shower she's in the shower I might be watching a show while we're waiting but the computer gets

[00:31:55] set aside while we do our devotion time and then we can go back to entertainment if we want

[00:32:02] entertainment but yeah so I don't have this idea that that I have to do something every single

[00:32:07] day and if I don't do it God's judging me for that but I do have this spiritual practice in my life

[00:32:14] of saying I've got to engage in God's word in some way so whether it's through the devotional

[00:32:20] reading or through the engagement of actually preparing a biblical text for teaching or for

[00:32:25] preaching that I utilize how about you my plan B is usually the biggest thing I

[00:32:34] have realized you just tapped on it I don't panic yeah God's not going to squash me dead if I don't

[00:32:41] get to have my devotional the way that it works there are times when I've got a weird thing going

[00:32:49] on right now I do a group devotional on a live Facebook thing every day and it's it's definitely

[00:32:57] an odd thing so I try not to prepare for it a lot I prepare a little but I really it's a

[00:33:03] devotional preparation but my plan B is get in the car listen to something on the way

[00:33:11] talk to the Lord in the car if I got to go and whether it's a pastoral thing where you

[00:33:17] got to be at the hospital or maybe you're just a person then you got you're late you didn't wake

[00:33:22] up in time and you're like oh man I'm such a loser no use the time in the car that's right

[00:33:27] you know the Lord blesses that I've had great devotional times in the car

[00:33:32] the key is to talk to the Lord to be listening to him to not be disconnected in your life

[00:33:40] and in such a way that you're not relating to him personally because spiritual formation

[00:33:48] happens well look at us here we are all these years later having these I remember when I first

[00:33:54] started having devotional life okay check this out so when I was at Fort Campbell I used to think

[00:33:59] okay I'm going to seminary I got to start really reading my Bible now so I started waking up at

[00:34:05] like 430 I had been accepted as a student at Southwest I was like I got to get up early I got

[00:34:10] to get holy before I get to seminary oh my goodness I didn't know what I was doing well I'm

[00:34:16] waking up at 430 I would wake up like 20 minutes later in front of a computer screen I had some

[00:34:23] lame computer but I was trying to remember I'd fall back asleep right and then I would leave the

[00:34:29] house by five so I thought wait a minute wait a minute you're messing it up I would get up

[00:34:34] get awake get my stuff get in the car and I would listen to Radio Bible class with

[00:34:41] Haddon Robinson yeah Mark Dillon and Alice Matthews it's about a 15 minute devotional

[00:34:49] Bible study on the radio every day and I got so much out of that spiritually

[00:34:57] and I didn't even think to put that in our talk notes that I thought I'm so glad the Lord reminded

[00:35:02] me of that right now I mean that was so beneficial so that's just an example of your plan B can

[00:35:07] actually be your plan A don't worry about it and don't live in guilt okay here's what I want

[00:35:14] to do I want to end the podcast with a little back and forth up to the number 10

[00:35:20] and I didn't tell Kenneth this was coming but we're gonna we're gonna answer the we're gonna give you

[00:35:26] 10 ways to stoke up your devotional life and we're just gonna randomly give you things off the

[00:35:32] top of our head right now to end the podcast of how to stoke up your devotional life and be

[00:35:36] spiritually formed by the Lord so so I'll go first the first thing you can do is get a new

[00:35:43] devotional book Kenneth second thing is get a different version of the Bible to read read a

[00:35:53] paraphrase that's really good yeah I'll say number three get a Bible the one that Kenneth just said

[00:36:02] let's say and actually start marking it up right in it get one that you're willing to write in

[00:36:08] underline highlight and and just do word studies okay another way of doing your devotions and there's

[00:36:17] I'm not this type of person but some people are is you can journal your devotions and so grab you a

[00:36:23] journal a blank piece of paper and begin writing out what God's teaching you through reading the

[00:36:29] Bible I wish that was a practice that I could do but journaling for some reason has just always

[00:36:35] been a struggle for me really I'm surprised because you're such a writer okay number five

[00:36:41] I'll go with what we've already said listen to the Bible on your phone that's good number six

[00:36:50] number six well I'll still what you've already mentioned but you know listen to

[00:36:55] someone like a had had Rob you know listen to one of these you know Jack Graham does PowerPoint

[00:37:05] Charles Stanley even though he's passed away he still has audio devotions that come out online

[00:37:11] sermon type things I love his oh he's my guy Dr. Stanley was so his devotional preaching man

[00:37:19] just always I loved him amen I would say take a prayer walk do something different take a prayer

[00:37:27] walk another one that that's actually this spoon feed you you can read so I Debbie and I both have

[00:37:34] Charles Stanley's daily devotion emailed to us so when you wake up in the morning you have a

[00:37:40] devotion sitting right there in your email box and so find one of your favorite preachers that

[00:37:46] has a devotion like that and sign up for his emails and you'll get a daily devotion so when you wake up

[00:37:52] to get out of bed there it is ready to read yeah I like that I've got a couple that come in it gets

[00:37:58] lost in my inbox sometimes but I do look at them that's that is really really good

[00:38:05] another thing would be to make a use a prayer list stoke up your devotional life by getting

[00:38:12] a list of names and just putting the names of your neighbors people who don't know the Lord

[00:38:19] your family just start using a kind of a formal prayer list on a three by five card

[00:38:25] and go down that list and just let that be your guide for praying okay one more be number 10 Ken

[00:38:32] yeah the number 10 the last one I do is actually go through a different model of prayer as a

[00:38:38] part of your devotion the acts right adoration confession thanksgiving supplication and so

[00:38:45] find these different model prayers and use that as your devotion time a lot too many people pray

[00:38:55] requesting and they don't praise during their devotion oh that's good yeah that's good

[00:39:02] well the reason why we wanted to deal with this topic the pros and cons of a devotional life is

[00:39:08] because it is important to be connected devotionally to the Lord and to the body of Christ in Acts

[00:39:14] chapter 2 verse 42 the older versions of the Bible say they continued steadfastly but some of the

[00:39:21] newer translations do the same thing it's same word but it uses the word they devoted

[00:39:27] themselves to these things and the first thing they devoted themselves was

[00:39:32] to was the apostles teaching the word devotion has the idea of we're going to start doing

[00:39:39] something devote ourselves to it and we're not going to stop yeah and so we hope you guys will

[00:39:46] hear us encouraging you to be spiritually formed by your devotional life develop a

[00:39:53] devotional life it is a long time proven practice that if you will have a devotional life

[00:40:02] it's going to carry you through your life and I do remember at southwestern when I was in seminary

[00:40:07] I remember Jimmy Draper and so many others who came through and basically said don't neglect

[00:40:13] your devotional life because it's going to keep you when other things are not going to keep you

[00:40:19] in the ministry right well thanks for the conversation Kenneth that's awesome we look forward

[00:40:28] to seeing we'll see you next week and listeners we're going to have the end of show notes some

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[00:40:56] love to do that more to come and I'll see you later Kenneth God bless bro see you have a great week