Mary and Joseph are wed before God, forcing them to endure ridicule, gossip, and shame from their community. Will this break their marriage before it has even begun?
Today's Bible verse is Ephesians 5:32, from the King James Version.
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Speaker 1: This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and
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Speaker 1: of the Assembly Ephesians five thirty two. Dear Heavenly Father,
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Speaker 1: we are reminded this season of the depth of your
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Speaker 1: love for us, a love so deep that it is
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Speaker 1: compared to the bond between a husband and a wife.
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Speaker 1: We are the Church your bride, and Jesus Christ is
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Speaker 1: our heavenly bridegroom. Thank you, Lord for this sacred relationship.
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Speaker 1: Thank You for your unconditional love, enduring patience, and unending
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Speaker 1: faithfulness to us. Help us to truly grasp this divine mystery,
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Speaker 1: to respond to your love in a way that honors you.
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Speaker 1: May we be faithful to you, seeking to know you
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Speaker 1: more each day, and living in a way that reflects
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Speaker 1: your love for the world. Teach us to love one
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Speaker 1: another as you have loved us, fostering unity, kindness, and
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Speaker 1: understanding within the body of Christ. As we ponder this
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Speaker 1: great mystery, fill us with awe and gratitude for your love.
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Speaker 1: Then guide us and walking in faithful response to it.
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Speaker 1: In the name of Jesus, we pray, Amen. Thank you
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Speaker 1: for praying with me today. Stay tuned now for another
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Speaker 1: episode of Stories of the Messiah with Rabbi Schneider.
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Speaker 2: Joseph picked up his pace and rounded the corner towards
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Speaker 2: the light, But before he could see anything, the cave
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Speaker 2: flooded with water, and Joseph found himself swimming for his
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Speaker 2: life amidst a violent storm in the middle of the sea.
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Speaker 2: Waves and breakers crashed over him. He swam but made
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Speaker 2: no progress. The waves thrashed and the riptide dragged him
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Speaker 2: down underneath. Joseph sank in a free fall into the
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Speaker 2: black abyss until a current pushed him onto the shore.
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Speaker 2: The storm subsided, and Joseph looked out at a golden
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Speaker 2: sunset hovering over the glassy sea. Suddenly, a luminous figure
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Speaker 2: appeared before him, an angel standing upon the glassy water.
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Speaker 2: His eyes were filled with wisdom and compassion. Joseph was
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Speaker 2: struck by awe and reverence. You're not Joseph, son of David.
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Speaker 2: What is conceived? And Mary is of the Holy Spirit.
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Speaker 2: She will bear a son, and you shall call his
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Speaker 2: name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.
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Speaker 2: The words wrapped around Joseph like a warm embrace, filling
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Speaker 2: him with an understanding that transcended earthly wisdom.
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Speaker 3: Hello everyone, and Welcome to another Christmas episode of the
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Speaker 3: Jesus podcast. I'm Ethan from pray dot Com. Today's episode
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Speaker 3: is a dramatization of Mary in Joseph's marriage. What a
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Speaker 3: strange and beautiful event that must have been. The circumstances
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Speaker 3: surrounding their union were far from ordinary. The customs back
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Speaker 3: then were set in stone, and nobody deviated from them.
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Speaker 3: It was not the path Mary and Joseph imagined for themselves,
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Speaker 3: But I suppose that's how life is. Sometimes we expect
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Speaker 3: life to follow a predictable course, but unexpected twists and
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Speaker 3: turns force us to adapt. The Bible shows us that
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Speaker 3: a life truly lived in obedience to God is rarely predictable.
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Speaker 3: I'm reminded of James Chapter four, verses thirteen through fifteen,
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Speaker 3: where it talks about making plans. It says, now, listen,
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Speaker 3: you who say today or tomorrow will go to this
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Speaker 3: or that city, spend in the year there, carry on
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Speaker 3: business and make money. You do not even know what
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Speaker 3: will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a
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Speaker 3: miss that appears for a little while and then vanishes. Instead,
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Speaker 3: you ought to say, if it's the Lord's will, we
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Speaker 3: will live and do this or that. James is communicating
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Speaker 3: an important life lesson for all of us. Life takes
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Speaker 3: unexpected turns. Life takes unexpected turns, and we must look
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Speaker 3: for God's will in all of it. Proverbs chapter sixteen,
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Speaker 3: verse nine says, a man's heart plans his way, but
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Speaker 3: the Lord directs his steps. We don't rely on our
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Speaker 3: plans or schedules to get through life. Instead, we rely
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Speaker 3: on the Lord's direction and strength to overcome the unknowns.
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Speaker 3: The Christmas story was filled with unknowns. As this series continues,
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Speaker 3: the plot will thicken and become more dramatic. In all
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Speaker 3: of the turmoil, danger, and mystery, Mary and Joseph must
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Speaker 3: rely on each other for support and on God for guidance.
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Speaker 3: In a sense, that is what Christmas means for all
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Speaker 3: of us. This season is about immersing ourselves in the
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Speaker 3: loving embrace of family and in the majesty of our God.
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Speaker 3: Let continue down the road with Joseph as he seeks
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Speaker 3: out Mary. The Lord has given him a dream confirming
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Speaker 3: that Mary is pregnant with God's son. Joseph, determined to
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Speaker 3: do right by Mary, finds her and takes her as
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Speaker 3: his wife. Let's listen, now join me afterwards, so we
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Speaker 3: can unpack Christmas truths and applications to strengthen our faith.
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Speaker 2: Joseph ran down the hill back to Nazareth with love
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Speaker 2: in his heart and courage in his bones. His dream
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Speaker 2: had provided clarity and purpose. He and Mary were chosen
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Speaker 2: to raise God's Son and Messiah and save your Israel
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Speaker 2: had been waiting for. Joseph ran to Mary's house, the
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Speaker 2: angel's words still ringing in his ears. His feet barely
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Speaker 2: touched the ground as he rushed to tell her of
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Speaker 2: his divine revelation. He found her in the garden outside
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Speaker 2: her home. She was kneeling, her soft hands delicately tending
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Speaker 2: to the flowers. She had such a grace and elegance.
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Speaker 2: Her beauty, especially now enraptured Joseph. A flood of memories
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Speaker 2: from the childhood came rushing back to him.
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Speaker 1: Even as a boy, he had always known that.
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Speaker 2: She was the one for him, Mary, Joseph said softly.
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Speaker 2: She looked up. Her eyes were still tinged with the
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Speaker 2: sadness of the last meeting. Joseph approached slowly and knelt
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Speaker 2: beside her. He took her hand in his, then placed
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Speaker 2: another on her belly, and smiled, his name will be Jesus.
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Speaker 2: Mary's eyes widened with amazement and relief. Her lips pursed
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Speaker 2: together holding back tears. Joseph embraced her and allowed her
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Speaker 2: to sob in his arms. He stroked the back of
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Speaker 2: her head and whispered, the Angel taught me everything I
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Speaker 2: need to know. He pulled back and held her face.
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Speaker 2: He wiped tears from her eyes with his thumbs and smiled.
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Speaker 4: We will struggle Mary. The people they will not understand.
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Speaker 5: But I am with you.
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Speaker 4: I will marry you. We will raise this child together
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Speaker 4: as husband and wife. Whatever comes our way, we know
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Speaker 4: the Lord will be on our side.
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Speaker 2: Joseph's words were a healing balmb to Mary's soul. She
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Speaker 2: no longer had to carry this burden and blessing on
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Speaker 2: her own. She will have someone by her side to
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Speaker 2: walk the peaks and valleys of God's divine path. She
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Speaker 2: gently touched Joseph's face and said something she had said before,
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Speaker 2: but never with the same weight and meaning.
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Speaker 5: I love you, Joseph.
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Speaker 2: And those words, spoken honestly and without prompting, were exactly
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Speaker 2: what Joseph needed. Joseph wanted to hold, kiss, and marry
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Speaker 2: her right there in the garden, but he knew he
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Speaker 2: had to show restraint. They had to tread lightly, for
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Speaker 2: the entire village thought Mary had been unfaithful. It would
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Speaker 2: only be a matter of time before they speculated Joseph
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Speaker 2: was the father and they had both broken tradition. Mary
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Speaker 2: rose to her feet, sensing the thoughts racing through Joseph's mind.
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Speaker 5: We will have to tell my parents, We will have
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Speaker 5: to tell everyone.
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Speaker 2: Joseph nodded.
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Speaker 4: Don't worry, he said, leave it to me.
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Speaker 1: Mary.
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Speaker 4: I will not let anyone dishonor you.
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Speaker 5: We can't keep others from judging us. Mary said, all
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Speaker 5: we can do is obey the Lord and trust that
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Speaker 5: he will go before us.
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Speaker 2: The two of them left the garden and ventured to
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Speaker 2: Mary's home. There, they sat together and explained everything to
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Speaker 2: her parents. Mary's father listened skeptically, the cultural traditions and
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Speaker 2: judgments weighing heavily on his mind. He did not reject
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Speaker 2: Joseph's words outright, but wore an expression of deep concern.
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Speaker 2: The villagers and extended family tool were unreceptive, Whispers of
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Speaker 2: scandal and disbelief circulating like a bitter wind. Even so,
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Speaker 2: Joseph and Mary were determined to be wed. They planned
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Speaker 2: a modest wedding, simple but filled with the profound joy
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Speaker 2: of their unique bond. Mary underwent all the cleansing rituals,
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Speaker 2: and Joseph gathered a few faithful men to blow Chaffar's.
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Speaker 2: They held the ceremony in the olive grove just before sunset.
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Speaker 2: As the day's last rays trickled through the trees, Joseph
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Speaker 2: saw his bride approach. His heart fluttered at the sight
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Speaker 2: of her. Although their union was under strange circumstances, he
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Speaker 2: found himself hopeful that his future with Mary would be
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Speaker 2: filled with quiet joy. Surrounded by only a few who
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Speaker 2: accepted them, they exchanged vows and gifts. Their eyes met,
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Speaker 2: and in that sacred moment, they saw each other and
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Speaker 2: the incredible journey ahead, the excitement for their new life,
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Speaker 2: the child they would raise, and the love they would share,
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Speaker 2: was captured in that single, timeless glance. That night in
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Speaker 2: the Huppa, they did not consummate their marriage. Joseph knew
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Speaker 2: something sacred were at work within Mary. He would not
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Speaker 2: know her intimately until after the birth of Jesus. Instead,
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Speaker 2: he tucked Mary into her bed and laid at her
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Speaker 2: feet He had a tenderness towards his wife, but it
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Speaker 2: was not a weak devotion. His love was protective and
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Speaker 2: a testament to the strength of his character. By the
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Speaker 2: warm flickering of candlelight, they spoke of their future, their hopes,
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Speaker 2: their dreams, and their fears, but always with faith in
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Speaker 2: each other and in the divine plan that had brought
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Speaker 2: them together. The world might doubt and scorn, but Joseph
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Speaker 2: and Mary knew they were a part of something greater,
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Speaker 2: something beautiful, something eternal. They were not alone. They were guided,
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Speaker 2: protected and loved by the creator of all things, and
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Speaker 2: that was all they needed.
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Speaker 3: In deciding to Mary, Mary, Joseph demonstrated his obedience to
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Speaker 3: God's directive and his willingness to face potential societal backlash.
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Speaker 3: Even though the rest of the world might not understand
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Speaker 3: Mary and Joseph's predicament. They had each other and that's
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Speaker 3: all they needed. Their decision to get married and remain
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Speaker 3: devoted to each other reflects the strength of the marriage covenant.
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Speaker 3: Marriage is not just a physical bond, nor is it
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Speaker 3: a mere government contract, as some would lead you to believe.
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Speaker 3: Many see marriage as a recognition of two people's love
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Speaker 3: for each other. Like being recognized in marriage is a
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Speaker 3: validation of your identity, but marriage is so much more
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Speaker 3: than that. Marriage is a covenant before God, a sacred commitment,
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Speaker 3: and a sanctuary of support, love, and strength. Marriage is
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Speaker 3: not just about the world validating your love. If it were,
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Speaker 3: then Joseph and Mary wouldn't have been married, since nobody
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Speaker 3: approved of what was happening. No, marriage is a bond
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Speaker 3: designed to endure trials and the unexpected term of life,
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Speaker 3: and ultimately, marriage is a reflection of Christ's love for us.
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Speaker 3: In Ephesians chapter five, Paul describes marriage as a mysterious
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Speaker 3: and profound image of the love and devotion Christ has
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Speaker 3: for the Church and the Church has for Christ. Joseph's
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Speaker 3: willingness to proceed with the marriage despite the appearance of scandal,
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Speaker 3: highlights marriage as a partnership designed to weather storms. He
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Speaker 3: and Mary must have drawn strength from each other throughout
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Speaker 3: their challenging yet divinely appointed journey. This act is an
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Speaker 3: encouragement for all married couples, a call to stand by
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Speaker 3: each other in the face of adversity, providing mutual support, understanding,
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Speaker 3: and love. Marriage is a steady pillar when the world
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Speaker 3: around us begins to crumble. We know that Mary and
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Speaker 3: Joseph must have had that to endure what they did.
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Speaker 3: In the coming episodes, we will see their relationship ship
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Speaker 3: put to the test as they brave a harrowing journey
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Speaker 3: to Joseph's homeland. Another theme explored in this episode is
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Speaker 3: surrendering expectations. Mary and Joseph both had to surrender their
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Speaker 3: expectations of traditional marriage life. They had to embrace God's
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Speaker 3: extraordinary plan, which involved potential ridicule and misunderstanding from their community.
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Speaker 3: This surrendering of expectations is a central theme of the
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Speaker 3: Christmas narrative. It points to the idea that God's plans
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Speaker 3: often defy human expectations and require our obedience and trust.
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Speaker 3: Yet there seemed to be a misunderstanding many Jews of
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Speaker 3: the time had about the Messiah. They expected some sort
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Speaker 3: of political liberator and king to come and deliver them
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Speaker 3: from Roman oppression. Instead, the Messiah came humbly, feeding the
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Speaker 3: and fishing with all the commoners. God's greatest gift to humanity,
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Speaker 3: Jesus arrived in a way that defied all human expectations,
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Speaker 3: not in a palace, but in a humble stage, Not
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Speaker 3: to a queen, but from a virgin in Nazareth. The
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Speaker 3: willingness of Mary and Joseph to change their expectations and
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Speaker 3: to obediently align with God's plan allowed for the First
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Speaker 3: Christmas and the arrival of our Savior. As we reflect
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Speaker 3: on the Christmas story, we can draw inspiration from Mary
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Speaker 3: and Joseph's experiences. Christmas is a time of joy and celebration,
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Speaker 3: but it's also a time to reflect on our own
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Speaker 3: willingness to trust God when his plans for us defy
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Speaker 3: our expectations. This season, let us remember the strength of
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Speaker 3: the marriage bond as exhibited by Mary and Joseph. Let
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Speaker 3: Us also embrace the humility and obedience they showed even
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Speaker 3: when God's plans were beyond them their understanding. This Christmas,
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Speaker 3: let us welcome Jesus into our hearts, homes, and lives,
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Speaker 3: willing to surrender our expectations in favor of God's divine plan.
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Speaker 3: Maybe your traditions will be shaken up this year, maybe
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Speaker 3: dreams will fall through, But do you know what, that's
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Speaker 3: okay because the one constant of Christmas is Christ and
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Speaker 3: that will surely never change, and that will certainly never change.
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Speaker 3: Thank you for joining me today on our journey through
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Speaker 3: the Nativity. Be sure to tune in next time as
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Speaker 3: the plot thickened and Mary and Joseph are forced to
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Speaker 3: leave Nazareth because of a decree made by Caesar